When Government Permission Replaces God’s Truth

Out of the haze and into the daily process of attempting to define how people permit or do not permit their function and lives to become influenced or directed by themselves or things outside themselves. Subtle aspects of the slow fade from absolutes to what’s good for you…

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Breaking Free from Dysfunctional Family Rules
  • Don’t talk. Keep quiet about the hard stuff.

  • Don’t feel. Emotions make people uncomfortable—better to hide them.

  • Don’t trust. People will let you down, so guard your heart.

  • Don’t need. Be strong, self-sufficient, and never “too much.”

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Feeling Deeply: A Path Toward Healing and Connection

Emotions can feel overwhelming, confusing, and even untrustworthy at times. Many of us have learned to push them aside or judge ourselves for having them in the first place. But as authors and clinicians like Jennie Allen, Dr. Curt Thompson, Dr. Daniel Siegel, Dr. Larry Crabb, Lysa TerKeurst, and Aundi Kolber remind us, our emotions are not the enemy. They are invitations—signposts that can lead us toward deeper connection with ourselves, others, and God.

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“Dear Mom: As School Ends, Don’t Forget Your Soul”

Sometimes it’s like we are all pulling each other over the finish line!

The end of the school year is loud.


It’s filled with permission slips, class parties, end-of-year gifts, finals, field days, and calendar chaos. It’s also filled with a quiet ache—a subtle exhaustion only moms seem to recognize. One season closes, another begins—and somehow, you’re expected to hold it all together.

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Finding Wholeness: Healing Dissociation and Shame through Faith and Soul-Care

In a world that often tells us to push past pain and "keep it together," many Christians quietly struggle with internal fragmentation—dissociation, emotional numbness, and lingering shame. These inner realities are not signs of spiritual failure, but indicators of deeper wounds that need gentle, Christ-centered healing.

Books like Boundaries for the Soul by Alison Cook and Kimberly Miller and The Soul of Shame by Dr. Curt Thompson offer powerful frameworks for understanding these struggles in light of God’s redemptive love. Together with Scripture, they paint a hopeful picture: God not only sees our hidden pain but invites us into a journey of integration and renewal.

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Understanding Trauma and Resilience: The Window of Tolerance and Insights from Leading Experts

Understanding the window of tolerance is crucial for trauma survivors, as it offers a framework for recognizing when they might be operating outside of their window and struggling to manage overwhelming emotions.

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What it's like to meet a new therapist... (truth and satire)

Setting up a meeting with a therapist or mental health counseling professional is something that some people...

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Winter 2023!

We are back at it in early January. I am writing after taking some time away with my family for the holiday season. It was a great trip to see family and create memories

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